This may seem like I'm some kind of prevert

(although I'm actually a fully fledged vert fast approaching ultravert status) but anyway there's an excellent thread about cunnilingus currently up at Pandagon - why some women really don't like it, why lots of others like it OK or like it lots and lots, what's the best way to talk to a partner about it. 144 comments and counting. Well worth reading for a lot of open sex-positive discussion.